In a large welcoming, bright warm room, company around a morning cup of coffee at a Senior Center.
In conversation it is mentioned that dishes feel smooth, not sticky or gummy as they do in the small two-room apartment.
Heads tilt and brows furrow. Sticky, gummy dishes.
A visit from a friendly face.
The dishes are in the drying rack next to the sink. But they are gummy and sticky with food that is dried on and never been removed.
It is remarked that a generic bar of soap and a washcloth might not work so well, washing dishes.
A light, small bottle of dishwashing liquid and a scrub sponge cut with scissors to comfortably fit a hand, is produced. The liquid is blue. It is alright, it will not leave a blue color, but clean dishes.
Every dish is plunge into warm soapy water and scrubbed with new scrub sponge, rinsed and left to dry. Instructions follow. The dishes are no longer sticky or gummy.
A promise of a follow up visit to check on new dish washing approach. The generic bar of soap and washcloth are left there for familiarity. The new blue dishwashing liquid stands upright by the side of the sink.
A suggestion to wear glasses when washing dishes. Better to see what could be missed.
Relief. The dishes are smooth. Somebody cares.
Probably would not have happened without a sanctuary, where people know the kind of questions to ask, and do not laugh at or ignore, such small issues. A Senior Center.