A Place to Go
January 2nd, 2008Light bulbs.
No light bulbs.
One more lamp is dark. Confusing. Where to get light bulbs? Who would put the light bulbs in?
Going to a large, open, friendly place. Sitting down and discussing. The subject of the darkness of the small two-room apartment comes up.
Ah, a friend, understands about light bulbs. Someone comes over and discovers the two lamps that are dark, really dark, now that the winter days are short. They know how to screw in light bulbs and suddenly the tiny two rooms are no longer dark and frightening, but light and familiar once more.
Such a small thing, light bulbs, but so important.
And if there was no where to go. To a large welcoming place, filled with voices and familiar faces. Just the TV and two small rooms.
That large welcoming place, a Senior Center. A tonic against fear, loneliness and numbing boredom. Not the same as some small unwelcoming and mostly unused room in a housing facility.
In a country where families are fractured, far away from a family member, who would care, or maybe who could care less. Often there is no family member at all. And life in two small rooms often provides little sense of community, little sense of hope. A sense of abandonment, loneliness and fear.
The days are long. No community center to go to, to share even the slightest and mundane dilemma that rarely anyone would think of. Light bulbs, and what to do when they no longer work.
Mary Eaton
Newburyport